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testimonials

Read about my clients experiences

Separation from my daughter

Judy, 65, Retired Teacher, London, 2019

I contacted Agatha in the hope of understanding a relationship problem with my daughter who has cut off all communication with me, without explaining why. Agatha helped me to truly acknowledge that we see things differently from each other and to accept this. Immediately, I felt a great weight leave my shoulders. I have learnt that I don’t need to control others lives by helping them to run smoothly, but to allow my daughter and other family members to take responsibility for their decisions and actions.

For many years I was almost living as a single parent while my husband worked away and even when he was home, didn’t engage with our three children or help out in any way. I took sole responsibility for everything and didn’t ask for his help. I found it very hard to accept this was my fault, as I had done all the hard work! Agatha help me talk to my husband calmly and explain how I felt unsupported. She explained that by showing my strength to my children, and not actually showing my feelings, may have led my daughter to not be able to express her feelings either, but to bottle up her problems leading to some depression. I learnt she had been depressed by reading an article she wrote and published online. In turn it seems this led to her feelings of low self worth. We also have a son with learning difficulties and mental illness which would have been very hard growing up with. It seems this has caused my daughter a lot of pain, which she wasn’t able to discuss with me.

Agatha helped me understand that cutting off all communication from me was our daughter’s decision alone, and that I don’t need to feel the responsibility for that decision.

While I feel incredibly sad not to see our daughter and her family, with Agatha’s insights and advice, I can respect her decision and wait until she is ready to re-connect. In the meantime with Agatha’s encouragement I send occasional short messages of love to my daughter so she knows I love her and want to see her when she is ready.

I knew the moment I first spoke to Agatha that we clicked. Within the first hour she so generously shared her deep knowledge of human relationships, which helped me immeasurably. She is warm, kind and honest and I would recommend her highly.

I felt so low for a long time

Jill, 46, Fashion Designer, London, 2019

I had been feeling low, depressed & was not in work for almost 2 years not excited about my future, In few sessions Agatha’s positive energy and advise opened my outlook & approach to life, Soon I started feeling optimistic, I was even offered a role within my industry which I like and now am looking forward to life, Agatha has great skills and there is so much to learn from her as a fantastic and professional person. Thank you

Negative thoughts…

Ally,38, Consulting, New York, 2018

Agatha, you have made a big difference in my life. You unscrambled the thoughts and emotions which were distorted and unhelpful, and helped me digest and re-adjust them so that they fueled and spurred me forward, rather than held me back. Your gentle, caring, PRACTICAL style (I put a big emphasis on the value and utility of the tools you’ve armed me with) was the perfect antidote to my self-sabotage… You’ve helped me massively, guiding me back to my powerful “I”, and thus giving me the impetus to pursue my dreams. You are love personified. Keep doing what you do. Thank you!!!

I felt stuck and lacked clarity in my life

Natasha, 32, Consulting, London, 2018

I decided to get in touch with Agatha after getting to a point in my life following a breakup and a job change where I just felt very stuck and lacking purpose. I was feeling empty and confused about where my life was going, feeling like I failed both in my professional and romantic lives. I was finding little purpose in the things I was going day to day, not clear about why I was doing things I was doing, and as a result lacking motivation to do even basic things like look after myself. I couldn’t figure out exactly why I was feeling this way and what specific steps I could take to change things around.

Working with Agatha really helped me organise my thoughts and get to the bottom of my emotional state. She helped me look at things from a different perspective, discover my deeper strengths and weaknesses, and start appreciating and accepting myself as I am. This helped me shift my focus towards many exciting things that future can bring, and most importantly all in my control to make happen, rather than being stuck on current problems. Within a couple of months, I started to feel much stronger mentally and started to gradually gain back my energy and motivation. With Agatha’s encouragement and support, I took some long overdue steps to change my job, set my long-term life goals, and most importantly establish boundaries for what I am, what I’m not and what I want in life. The process with Agatha has given me reference points for all future aspects of my life. I understand more clearly what environment I need to create for myself at work, in romantic relationships and socially. I now have a new exciting job lined up, and am on the recovery path from an abusive relationship. It’s been a massive turnaround and I look forward to gaining my energy and motivation back 100%.

I highly recommend Agatha. She’s very professional, extremely knowledgeable, easy to connect with and maintains an amazing positive attitude, which is contagious. Sessions with Agatha are always very insightful, time flies by very quickly, and she has a talent to connect with people naturally, adding humour and positivity to every conversation. I picked up a lot of very useful insights and techniques that I now apply with myself and have even shared with my friends and family. Thank you, Agatha!

Difficult relationship with mother

Nicole, 33, Project Manager, London – 2018

Before meeting Agatha I struggled deeply with a relationship I had with a loved one. Unbeknownst to me, lack of boundaries caused a lot of angst between this loved one and I, and I discovered that this was negatively impacting all aspects of the beautiful life I moved to London to create.

Agatha, through neuro linguistic programming and her very loving, careful, and thoughtful techniques, very clearly showed me that I was stuck in a vicious cycle with my loved one and that I would need to establish boundaries – as painful as that can be – in order to take control back over my life. It has been nearly four months since I started working with her (nearly everyday – I might add) and I have successfully defined healthy boundaries not only with the aforementioned loved one but in other areas of my life, and am starting to apply them assertively.

I am learning to find peace and have found that the initial challenge I approached Agatha with is becoming less of a challenge now that the boundaries are in place. Aside from all of this, Agatha is wonderfully positive and there is just so much to learn from her as a person beyond what her frameworks and advice help you achieve.

A game changing experience

Alicja 37, Counsellor, London 2018

Working with Agatha has been an inspiring and empowering journey. She embraced my uniqueness and helped me to reconnect with my inner knowing. If you are considering improvements in your life, the way you relate to others, increasing your happiness and wellbeing, just contact Agatha and book a session. You are one step away from a “game changing” experience which will affect all dimensions of your life. She is a true force of positive energy! Now I am more determined than ever to remain focused on my wellbeing and reach for things in life which seemed to be out of my reach before. Thank you