The grudge I was holding was hurting me

March15th2015

Margaret (37), Restaurant Manager, Jersey, 2015

Absolutely helpful, she helped me to understand, that certain issues (not necessarily created by us) do not have to impact our life. Agatha helped me to see my problems from a different, positive perspective. I understood that dwelling on the past and overthinking only hurts me.

I’ve learned from my own experience, where some people very close to me have treated me like an enemy and created a barrier of impassivity and rejection. Despite all of my efforts, I was unable to sort it out.

It was Agatha, who opened my eyes. Thanks to her I’ve decided to not waste my life on negative energy and appreciate my life and my loved ones, and the smallest things I cherish. I understood that the only way to improve my interactions with others is to start from myself.

Conflicts and life’s problems lecture us on acceptance and finding new solutions. In circumstances like mine, people like Agatha become our wisdom and a signpost. They listen, look and see things from an unbiased angle and suggest techniques and methods that when applied, help us to live in peace with ourselves.

Thank you for your help and the force of the positive energy! Thank you for helping me realise that problems are not our life, but rather our reactions to them and the way we resolve them.